The past 9 months have been a time of great transition for me. On July 1st my divorce from Ryan was finalized. Ironic that this closure came to fruition so close to July 4th, Independence Day.
I say this with a sense of bittersweet-ness. Even though letting go of my marriage with Ryan was one of the hardest things I have ever done, I will always honor and appreciate the time we’ve shared together.
We’ve had a lot of good times. He knows how to comfort me and make me feel safe when I feel scared, and he’s helped remind me many-a-times of my own amazingness when I couldn’t see it on my own.
Our relationship is evolving and now we are supporting each other in a new way. I’m excited for him to achieve all of the things he wants and deserves for his life.
Most people see divorce as a terrible thing, but I actually think this decision was one of the best things we could have ever done for each other.
I truly love seeing him stepping into all of the important parts of himself that he had been ignoring for such a long time and I am happy to see him exploring and getting clear on what he wants most for his life.